Are you in a situation where your X has refused to allow you to see your child(ren) or even gone so far as to ignore/evade court orders to do so? Has (have) your child(ren) even been brainwashed into believing you are the bad guy/gal in the process? This is abuse of the child of the highest order, but it is also devastatingly abusive of the victim/spouse who endures untold amounts of pain in the process. Jump on this podcast express to learn more with some personal testimonies as well as scripture and prayer to bring you understanding, encouragement and freedom!
I am experiencing a horrific high conflict divorce and custody battle with Parental Alienation. I separated June 2013, very abusive Narc/Jez/Satanist husband. The court system is corrupt, his two attorney's came after me, the Custody Evaluator aligned with his friend the attorney. I am still not divorced. My 18 yr old daughter Grace went no contact with me on Oct 22, 2017 with her younger sister Callie. I got a TRO to have my custody with Callie restableshed after 6 months of no contact. She was 14 at the time and now 15. Grace turned 18 March 9, 2018, so I could not fight for her in the court. God is restoring my relationship with Callie; however, I only have her 6 nights a month. My family of origin turned against me after the separation. October 22nd is coming up, 1 yr since she got angry at me and turned her sister against me along with their father and went no contact. The Judge took more time away from me on May 14, 2018 in our hearing. I lost 2 nights with Callie and all rights on decisions and had to pay husband money on custody evaluation that was not even completed after $10,000. I have spent thousands to protect our daughters from their father. I am thankful for this because it made me cling to Jesus and trust God and rely on the Holy Spirit. I was born into abuse. I have survived abuse from my father in every way and my mother and other family members. I accepted Jesus at 8. I have lived a life of abuse and trauma my entire life and now legal and financial. This has been a blessing and made me stronger in the Lord. My heart hurts for our daughters. My husband abused me in every way and our daughters. It took me years before God got me to a place to confront him and I had to be ready for this World War 3. It has been painful to the core but helped me grieve my childhood that I denied and the marriage. God will use this for my good and his glory . I am like Job and so many other brothers and sisters in the bible .
ReplyDeleteI do need prayer that my divorce will be final asap. The Judge is holding it up by not doing his job. The last hearing was Sept 24, 2018 and the Judge attempted to get the attorney's to do his job, they said no politely. I am waiting on the Judge at this point to do his job. Meanwhile I am still paying child support on both daughter's even though Grace is now in college . I desire closure. I desire the divorce to be final. I want to know how God will use me in the kingdom. I too forgive everyday. I will be better not bitter and I will be the role model for my girls. I live for Christ and I die for Christ . This too shall pass. God's ways and thoughts are higher .This life is only about Jesus. I have to forgive this whole world, they know not what they do.
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I lived to tell, so I can live to tell. Jesus is the only way!
I am grateful to have found you on You Tube and your blog. You are an encouragement. I have grown and matured and want to be all God created me to be and have everything Jesus died to give me. This Christian view on PA is so needed. Professionals exploit PA for $. Thank you!