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Yesterday i found myself so irritated with a jezebel that I know and this video popped up. It was perfect timing and I know God is wanting me to understand what's going on from a spiritual stand point. This young lady has issues with rejection as her mother went to prison and was on the run when she was younger. Some kind of way the mom raised the other siblings but not this young lady i know so her dad raised her. Now as an adult she's an attention seeker and a habitual liar. Starting out, we were enemies. My now husband dated her for maybe a year and a half. From my knowledge she's always been on the hunt for love and my husband was the most caring guy she had ever been with. I think he made her feel loved and when that ended she went nuts! I'm not really sure if she's honestly recovered from the hurt she felt almost a decade ago but she gets in relationship after relationship and they don't quite work out. There's one guy that she moves in whenever the other relationships dont work out. I don't believe she really likes this guy but she doesnt like to be alone. She did some very evil things to me. She never stopped bothering me until about 2 years ago. There's children that came from that very short relationship and she used those children against my husband. he pays child support but she keeps them away for years at a time. Luckily my husband is no Ahab! he doesn't chase her. We ignore her! Well she came out of no where to apologize to me since she says im the reason the children werent allowed to see their dad. It seemed sincere but i know you cant really trust these kind of people. I prayed and God said be watchful but forgive and be nice. If she even thinks she's being sneaky, he'll handle it so I trust God in this. We've been talking and the kids are coming over now. She's older than i am but since ive known her she's been really obsessed with talking about career life with me and the things I like. Right out of high school God blessed me with great corporate roles i didnt even have experience for. She worked retail and other customer service type roles and still does today. She comes out of no where to show me she's doing all these grand things at her job. She tells me I do sooo much, i have to do email for executives, accounting, scheduling, presentations, coaching, the list was long. she also said that her company is going to be flying her out to train others in the company. I literally just mentioned a few weeks back that my company is sending me out to train our facilities for a new acquisition thats taking place. How ironic is it or is it a big fat lie? It's like she's in competition with me and i'm the standard that she feels she must meet. I'm living the life that God has given me. I'm very down to earth. Anything about my past, im not ashamed to discuss it. She on the other hand blames everyone. She's always victim and its really annoying yet sad. I dont ask for the lies and I'm also not trying to give her the supply she's looking for by giving her kudos for these imaginary things. There's so many other things we notice. for example, she finally saw our home when she dropped off the children. Well lo and behold, she decided to decorate her home all of a sudden because it wasn't decorated at first. It must take a lot of work to live this type of life. I'm annoyed and I almost want to cut contact. Maybe God will show me
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